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Handling Difficult Behaviours
People with negative emotions have a
much greater chance of experiencing negative stress and distress and are
more likely to experience dissatisfaction with their lives and jobs.
Some of the results of negativity include increased absenteeism, use of
medical benefits and, in many cases, can result in lowered productivity
and happiness. By learning how to cope with negativity (both from self
and others), individuals are more likely to find their life and work
more satisfying and productive.
As a manager, the longer you wait to address a performance problem, the harder it will be to deal with it constructively and the worse the problem becomes. Employees do not start out as marginal or intolerable performers. Most often, they grow into these more severe problem employees when little corrective effort was made at the time performance was inconsistent, unbalanced or becoming mediocre. In the 1980s, wrongful termination lawsuits became a fairly common practice, with employers losing many more cases than they won. The 1990s have reaffirmed the highly competitive economic climate we live in. In today's business world, in the public sector as in the private sector, managers, more than ever, need to effectively manage the performance of their people. Recognizing the important management responsibility, and understanding what constitutes a problem or difficult employee, are requisites for successfully resolving performance problems and achieving positive results.
Dealing with the aggressor, who is intimidating, hostile and loves to threaten. What to do: Listen to everything the person has to say. Avoid arguments and be formal, calling the person by name. Be concise and clear with your reactions. Dealing with the underminer, who takes pride in criticism and is sarcastic and devious. What to do: Focus on the issues and don't acknowledge sarcasm. Don't overreact. Dealing with the unresponsive person, who is difficult to talk to and never reveals his or her ideas. What to do: Ask open-ended questions and learn to be silent-waiting for the person to say something. Be patient and friendly. Dealing with the egotist, who knows it all and feels and acts superior. What to do: Make sure you know
the facts. Agree when possible and ask questions and listen. Disagree
only when you know you're right. Source: Business Marketing Reference |
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